“Caste all your burdens on Me for I care for you. Because you seek to be dependent on me, I will lead you in the ways you should go. Call me, and I will be there in times of need. I give you freedom to make choices, so ask me for wisdom to make the right choices, that your joy may be full.”
Father, I ask for wisdom to make the right choice to determine who should be my spouse? And to whom should I devote my attention?
“Don’t rush into quick decisions, but be willing to wait. Be friends, and comfort those in need. I love all of My children, and I am working in their lives, as I am also working in yours. It is a ministry, as I have told you before. Many are bruised and hurting, and needing healing. They are thinking also as you are, wondering what is next. Don’t rush, and don’t stress, because a refining process in taking place in their lives and yours.
If and when someone is right for you, you will know, and they also will know. Now it seems to be more of a guessing game of imagining different ones. To Me all my children are special and loved. They are all wandering what is next.
Display to others Love, caring, and be considerate to all. The ones who are most attracted to you will become evident, and you also will start drawing closer toward them. Compatibility is not something that could be written on a list or chart, which displays the positive and negative traits, by which one can logically determine the best.
Compatibility is the meshing together of two lives, which can be illustrated as a puzzle. As a puzzle, some pieces have portions which protrude out like fingers, other pieces have intrusions like pockets, which makes possible for the two pieces to fit together. Picture the protrusions as areas of strength, and intrusions as areas of weakness. Now think of the spouses being half of a puzzle. For the puzzle to fit together properly, the protrusions (strengths) and intrusions (weaknesses) should fit together to complete the puzzle. A perfect fit is when the strengths of one spouse strengthen the weakness of the other spouse, and also vice versa. Because of this, the two together are stronger and more complete together. So be willing to wait for the one who best fits the other half of your puzzle.
Ask for guidance and wisdom to find the right one for you, for it will come at the right time. I know your heart, and your desires, your future destiny, and your needs. So wait on Me and I will direct your path.”