“Don’t lay heavy burdens on people by elaborating in detail the negative things happening in your life, unless they indicate interest or a desire to know. Don’t be overbearing in your conversations in content that the other person seem uninterested in hearing, for it will create in them a negative response. Use discretion to whom you are speaking such things, and if discussed only mention briefly. If interested, they will ask for more information.
What happens; without realizing it, you are laying on others your heavy burden of negativity and depression, like a black cloud being laid over them. For this reason most positive people don’t want to be around people who are problem prone, negative complainers. When you continue to talk about your problems and complain, you reinforce the problem and keep your mind focused on its negative aspects, causing depression. Your words and actions repel people from wanting to be around you.
So come unto Me all of you who are weak and overwhelmed with heavy burdens, and lay them on Me, for I care for you, and will take it from you that your joy may be full. Let your burdens go.
Be healed, and focus on the positive and good things I have for you. There are no problems to great to overcome, for I have solutions; If you are in the bondage of despair, depression and negative thinking, you can be healed and changed into a person of ‘faith believing’ that I AM all and everything you need. Focus your attention on the ‘what so ever’ passages in Philippines’
If you present yourself as an upbeat positive person who is happy, playful, loving, full of joy and peace, you will be like a magnet that attracts the company of others. It is like electric current; the positive charge is where the power is. The negative is the opposite and is grounded or neutralized.
The power is in sharing good and positive things with others, and they will want to be around you. Bless others, uplift them and be interested in them and what they have to say. As you desire others to be interested in you, do to others and positive relationships will flourish. Be yourself, silly and fun to be around and your perspective of life will be enhanced.