“Be aware of those who are not upfront about themselves, hiding things which reveal who they really are. You want someone transparent and open, who is honest and sincere, with nothing hidden from sight.
Many say only those things which will attract others, hiding areas of their life which need healing, openness and changes. Stay away from those who exhibit bitterness, hate, and UN-forgiveness.
If you experience an uncomfortable feeling about something, ask questions, and seek answers. Seek to know as much as possible about the person; both good and bad. There is no one without flaws, or some issues which may or may not be resolved.
It is not perfection you should seek, but compatibility. Can two become one in love and purpose with a selfish, self centered person; if they are a giving person? Wouldn’t the giving person will be the looser?
Being inequality yoked together, goes beyond believers and unbelievers. Be aware of those who point out the flaws in others, yet see none in their own life. These are people with a religious spirit of deception, seeing themselves as a self-righteous authority, condemning others. They tear down others to build up themselves.”