Father, it is difficult searching through the internet, for a potential spouse. Am I wasting my time? What if there is nobody near me? Who is real, and who are the deceivers? How should I view this uncomfortable experience?
“Remain neutral, and allow things to unfold. They are looking for someone, and seeking the same things as you are, unsure of their future destiny. Be patient until the time is ripe. Be anxious for nothing, but by prayer and supplication, let your request be made known. I am preparing the right one for you, at the right time. This is the time to focus on our relationship.
Don’t worry, don’t rush things, because seeds don’t grow into maturity over night, but must be waited on to bear fruit. The process of the search is not only affecting you, but those who you communicate with. Some may be future friendships. Keep yourself open and receptive to My Spirit flowing through you, to have a positive impact on others.
All My children need relationships with other believers. Approach this experience as building relationships, and fellowship with other believers, ministering to each other. Many are hurting, been abused, betrayed, and embittered, with humiliation, degradation, and isolation. Think in terms of being a light to them in times of need, and a friend who they can talk to, and ministering to them through the inspiration of My Spirit.
Be friends but don’t manipulate, nor try to make things happen according to your will. I will ordain what will happen, and I don’t need you to influence circumstances. Be free to communicate with others. Don’t anticipate anything, but seek friendly relationships. This will allow you and others to sense My peace. True peace, which surpasses understanding, comes from Me, and not a spouse. I am in control of all things.”