“Don’t monopolize a conversation, because it will have negative effects on what people think of you. Use discretion and be careful of the content you communicate. Listen more and hear what others are really saying; without interrupting or trying to think about what you will say, in response to what they’re saying. Instead listen carefully and be willing to ask them to further explain, or elaborate on what they’re saying. Good conversation is informative and considerate.
You don’t have to say things to feel that your part of a conversation, so let them talk until they finish what they’re saying, then respond. Wisdom is guarding what you say; and thinking out how to effective explain yourself.
Too often people talk before they take a moment to think about what they’re saying, causing then to appear foolish, and lacking wisdom. Foolishness is saying many words, with very little content of any value.
Allow My wisdom to freely flow through you in all that you do, and especially in your words and the things you say, at the proper time and in the proper way, inspired by My Spirit. Vain words are folly, and reveal foolishness, causing you to appear as a fool. Wisdom in words has power and authority, and those who guard their tongue and the words they speak will have great impact on the lives of others.
Also remember that the things you say can be like like pearls, that shouldn’t be cast before swine. So use discernment and wisdom about the subject and content that you share or communicate with others: Things which are personal, about others, controversial, or special revelation of a sensitive nature, which is only for those who I trust. If there is a feeling of doubt or uneasiness, or being unsure, keep it to yourself.
Don’t judge others, even if they are judging you. Often they don’t understand you; nor do you understand them. Your lives and paths are different, and perspectives different because of your past, your choices, personality, talents and abilities are different. Instead focus on being the best you can be; and don’t judge others, because the stand you use will be used against you. For love is not judgmental, and condemning, but is patient, caring and willing to help those in need.”